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Afghan quake survivors still waiting for help
Zan Times - Sept 5, 2025 - by Shams Rahman
{‘All I have left is this cloth’: Afghan quake survivors still waiting for
help
This report has been published in partnership with the Guardian.
In the shattered houses of Wadeer village in Afghanistan’s Kunar province,
survivors of Sunday’s devastating earthquake that has killed more than
2,200 people say they are still waiting for the most basic help: food and
shelter. The 6.0-magnitude quake, which struck eastern Afghanistan at
about midnight, also injured more than 3,600, according to Taliban
officials. And across Kunar province, more than 5,700 homes have been
destroyed. The district of Nurgal, in the west of Kunar province, where
the village of Wadeer lies, was the epicentre of the devastation, with
1,000 people confirmed dead and 2,500 injured. The Taliban, which took
control of the country in 2021, have urged charities, business owners and
ordinary citizens to contribute to their response. Bank account numbers
were circulated online by Taliban spokesmen with a promise that donations
would be handled with “transparency”. A Taliban government spokesperson,
Zabihullah Mujahid, says rescue efforts are continuing. In areas
unreachable by helicopters, commando units have reportedly been airdropped
to carry the wounded to safety.
But on the ground, the gap between announcements and action is growing.
Some volunteer rescue teams have reached the village of Wadeer and mobile
health units have been dispatched, but residents say the support remains
insufficient. Damage to roads by the earthquake and recent rains have made
access even more difficult. In other villages, some survivors are still
waiting to get the bodies of their loved ones out of the rubble. “We
urgently need tents and food. People have lost their homes; they don’t
even have the means to cook. And we need more doctors. There are too few
medical teams, and people are still buried,” a village elder in Wadeer
tells the Guardian. “We are still sitting under the sun because there is
no tent,” says a grandmother in Wadeer, who is with her two grandchildren.
“If there were a tent, I could at least keep them in the shade.” She says
her daughter-in-law and husband were taken to a hospital by helicopter,
but she has no idea where. No one has returned with information or aid.
Nearby, another woman who lost more than 30 relatives says: “I lost my
husband, my sons, my grandchildren. Everything. All I have left is this
cloth. I don’t even have money to buy a paracetamol.” Aid agencies have
said female survivors of the earthquake cannot easily access aid or
medical support and that in conservative provinces such as Kunar, it is
difficult for a single woman to ask for help from unrelated men. Women’s
autonomy and movement are heavily restricted under the Taliban, including
a ban on women speaking in public. Despite being one of the most-affected
districts, Nurgal has only one functioning hospital, which cannot handle
the overwhelming number of casualties. Most of those rescued so far are
transferred to the Afghan capital, Kabul, or to the neighbouring Nangarhar
province via helicopter for treatment.
International organisations are struggling to scale up relief efforts not
just due to the terrain, but also because of severe funding shortfalls,
many of which stem from the broader collapse of donor support for
Afghanistan. “The situation on the ground is critical,” says the Norwegian
Refugee Council (NRC). “Entire communities are in urgent need of
life-saving assistance. Local resources are stretched to the breaking
point, and lack of funding is limiting the scale and speed of the
humanitarian response.” The NRC says families in Kunar province have been
sleeping in overcrowded tents, some sheltering up to 100 women and
children with no access to toilets or clean water. Since February 2025,
422 health centres across Afghanistan are reported to have closed after US
aid cuts. In eastern Afghanistan alone, 80 health centres have shut down,
including at least 15 in Kunar and 29 in Nangarhar, leaving quake
survivors even more vulnerable. The NRC says its funding portfolio is 60%
of what it was in 2023, significantly limiting its ability to respond to
growing humanitarian needs. The United Nations’ International Organization
for Migration, which helps displaced people in Afghanistan, says funding
cuts this year have reduced warehouse capacity and the organisation’s
presence on the ground, forcing most supplies to be dispatched from Kabul,
which further adds to delays and logistical costs. The World Health
Organization and other agencies have deployed emergency health kits,
mobile teams and additional ambulances to the region. Yet for many in
remote areas, access to care remains impossible. With roads blocked and
too few helicopters, villagers must wait, hoping for help to arrive. The
UN Office for the Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs says 25
inter-agency teams have reached some affected districts, but admitted that
access to the worst-hit valleys remains patchy, and weather conditions
have further delayed progress. The UN has allocated $10m (£7.4m) in
emergency funds, $5m from the Central Emergency Response Fund and another
$5m from the Afghanistan Humanitarian Fund. But aid officials say this is
a fraction of what is needed. For now, in villages such as Wadeer, people
sit under scraps of cloth or plastic sheeting, mourning their dead and
fearing what comes next.
Kreshma Fakhri and Freshta Ghani contributed reporting.} Source: https://zantimes.com/2025/09/05/all-i-have-left-is-this-cloth-afghan-quake-survivors-still-waiting-for-help/

Afghan earthquake survivors
Al Jazeera - Sept 3, 2025 - By Abdurahman Sharif
{After the quake, Afghanistan’s children face a crisis within a crisis
Aid cuts have shuttered clinics and stalled relief; restore funding now to
save lives. As a ruthless magnitude 6.0 earthquake ripped through eastern
Afghanistan this week, it flattened entire mountain villages and shattered
the fragile lives of thousands, particularly children, who were already
grappling with soaring humanitarian needs and funding cuts. This
earthquake, centred in the provinces of Kunar and Nangarhar, has already
killed more than 1,400 people and the number is expected to rise, while
aftershocks continue to wreak havoc. Thousands more are injured, with
entire villages levelled in remote, mountainous terrain where roads are
blocked, and rescue teams – including Save the Children mobile health
staff – are battling to reach those in need. But this is not just another
natural disaster – it is a collision of disasters for Afghanistan, where
nearly 23 million people – or just less than half of the population – need
humanitarian assistance this year. More than 9 million people will face
acute food insecurity, according to the Integrated Food Security Phase
Classification, before October. At least 2 million people have been forced
to return to Afghanistan this year alone from Iran and Pakistan. The
result is catastrophic – and it is children who bear the brunt. Such
natural disasters demand a rapid and robust humanitarian response.
Children need immediate medical attention, clean water, shelter and
psychosocial support to recover from trauma. Yet these essential
operations are being constrained – curtailed by aid cuts inflicted upon
the global humanitarian system. This year, international donors have cut
foreign aid budgets. These decisions have come at exactly the wrong time.
About 126 programmes run by Save the Children globally had been shut down
by cuts in aid as of May, affecting about 10.3 million people. These are
programmes that support millions of children in conflict zones, refugee
camps and disaster-prone areas. In Afghanistan, these cuts have meant less
staff to respond when disaster strikes and to respond to a disaster such
as this earthquake. Medical clinics have been closed, so there are fewer
facilities to treat the injured, and the health facilities that are still
open are desperately over-stretched, even before this disaster happened.
Health services in Afghanistan cannot absorb blows like this earthquake.
The effect of aid cuts in Afghanistan has been acutely felt by Save the
Children. Save the Children lost funding for 14 health clinics in northern
and eastern Afghanistan, although we are using alternative short-term
funding to keep them open currently. The loss of these clinics would mean
13,000 children losing access to healthcare in their villages. Earlier
this year, I visited Nangarhar province, now lying devastated by the huge
earthquake, and I met children and their families struggling to survive. I
have seen entire health centres run by our partners shut down. Families
told me what that means: Mothers unable to give birth safely, children
missing critical vaccinations, and households left without hope. The scale
of the humanitarian crisis in Afghanistan, exacerbated by aid cuts and now
combined with a sudden-response scenario like the Afghan earthquake, makes
for a crisis within a crisis. Aid agencies are stretched thin – or absent
– due to staff layoffs and the closure of programmes and offices. This
earthquake should be a clarion call – for us to reinvest in humanitarian
aid, swiftly and generously. Donor governments must reverse course,
unblock emergency funding, and commit to longer-term financing of
child-focused services. Without immediate, sustained funding, we
anticipate a rapid deterioration – children exposed to waterborne
diseases, families forced into negative coping strategies like child
labour or early marriage, and rising rates of malnutrition in a country
where one in five children already faced crisis levels of hunger before
the quake. By October this year, five million Afghan children – or about
20% of children in Afghanistan – were expected to face acute hunger, with
funding cuts reducing the amount of food aid available by 40% and 420
health centres closed, removing access for three million people. Even
before the aid cuts, 14 million people had limited access to healthcare.
We must ensure that when disaster strikes – whether an earthquake or
conflict – we have the ability to respond – and quickly. We must make sure
children’s rights endure, even when budgets falter. This is a crisis
compounding a crisis. We are witnessing the collapse of protective systems
for children – medical, nutritional, educational, psychosocial – when they
are most critical. No child should die because the world’s attention wanes
or budgets shrink. The children of Afghanistan were already vulnerable to
hunger, disease, poverty, and isolation, and they have now been plunged
into a deeper abyss. The views expressed in this article are the author’s
own and do not necessarily reflect Al Jazeera’s editorial stance.} Source:
https://www.aljazeera.com/opinions/2025/9/3/after-the-quake-afghanistans-children-face-a-crisis-within-a-crisis
Jinha - Womens News Center - Sept 4, 2025 - By BEHARAN LEHİB
{UN official: Afghanistan’s humanitarian crisis demands urgent response
UNHCR urged urgent aid after Afghanistan’s deadly quake, saying women and
children suffer most amid collapsed infrastructure and critical shortages
of shelter, healthcare, and essentials.
News Center - A 6.0-magnitude earthquake struck eastern Afghanistan in
late August, followed by a series of aftershocks that killed and injured
thousands, triggering a humanitarian catastrophe. Rabab Bassam, Head of
External Relations at the UNHCR, said on Wednesday, September 4, that the
earthquake was “catastrophic by all measures,” leaving behind a massive
humanitarian tragedy. She emphasized that the situation now requires
“urgent and intensified intervention, as we are facing a deepening
humanitarian crisis.” She explained that the conditions in the affected
areas are dire, with women and children disproportionately impacted. Homes
have been destroyed, health facilities disabled, and supply routes blocked
by landslides and road closures, resulting in acute shortages of shelter,
healthcare, clean water, sanitation, and food. According to Bassam, UNHCR
is working along two parallel tracks: the first focuses on meeting urgent
needs—search and rescue, medical care, and emergency shelter—while the
second supports returnees with reception, screening, reintegration
assistance, and temporary housing. She stressed the urgent need for
international support to bridge funding gaps and ensure aid delivery. “We
call on the international community to provide immediate assistance to
prevent further tragedies, especially as Afghanistan is already facing
multiple crises, including severe drought and the mass return of millions
of Afghans from neighboring countries,” she said. The death toll from the
earthquake in Kunar province has risen to 1,411, with more than 3,000
injured, according to Afghanistan’s Disaster Management Authority, which
warned the numbers are expected to rise as rescue operations continue amid
ongoing aftershocks. Thousands of homes have collapsed, particularly in
mountainous and remote areas where rescue teams face major challenges
reaching survivors due to rugged terrain and blocked roads.} Source: https://jinhaagency.com/en/actual/un-official-afghanistan-s-humanitarian-crisis-demands-urgent-response-37482
Jinha - Womens News Center - Sept 3, 2025 - By BEHARAN LEHİB
{Afghan earthquake survivor recounts harrowing night
A woman recounts the devastation after a 6.0-magnitude earthquake struck
eastern Afghanistan on August 31, killing and injuring thousands and
causing widespread destruction across the mountainous region.
Kunar — Hajira Noor, a survivor of the Kunar earthquake, recounted the
horrifying scenes that claimed members of her family. She said the lack of
roads and medical facilities has worsened the suffering, and aid remains
scarce amid looting and delays in evacuating the injured. The
6.0-magnitude earthquake, which struck late at night on August 31,
devastated the provinces of Kunar, Laghman, and Jalalabad, causing
widespread damage to homes and farmland in the affected provinces. In
Jalalabad, several villages in the Darai Nur area suffered severe
destruction, including the deaths of four children buried under collapsed
houses. Laghman province reported mostly material losses, with no
fatalities. The worst devastation occurred in Kunar, where the Chapa Dara
and Mazar Dara districts were flattened. Residents continued searching the
rubble for bodies two days after the disaster. Taliban statistics indicate
that more than 1,000 people were killed and approximately 2,500 injured.
Kunar, known for its mountainous terrain and the fast-flowing Kunar River,
faces constant challenges due to its geography, which becomes particularly
perilous during natural disasters. Hajira Noor described the night of the
earthquake: “It was midnight when I heard a terrifying sound and woke up
to see the room collapsing. I grabbed my two-year-old daughter and fled
with my husband. By the time we got outside, our house had completely
fallen. My elderly parents-in-law in the next room couldn’t escape; rescue
teams recovered their bodies the next day after hours of searching.” She
added that some families lost all members, while others had only one or
two survivors. “Every day, we bury our loved ones—mostly children, women,
and the elderly who couldn’t escape,” she said. Asked about aid, she
simply replied, “None.” Noor explained that the affected valleys lack
proper roads and healthcare centers, severely hampering relief efforts,
particularly for injured women who face extreme difficulty accessing
treatment. Helicopters are often required to deliver aid. She warned that
the humanitarian situation is dire, with ongoing looting of aid supplies
causing significant delays in evacuating the injured. “The severe shortage
of resources threatens lives continuously, making every passing moment a
harsh test of survival,” Noor said.} Source: https://jinhaagency.com/en/actual/afghan-earthquake-survivor-recounts-harrowing-night-37478

Earthquake Herat 2023
UN News - Sept. 1, 2025
{Aid effort underway after Afghanistan quake ‘wipes out’ villages
Destruction from the deadly earthquake that hit Herat province in October
2023.
After a magnitude six earthquake struck remote areas of eastern
Afghanistan overnight reportedly killing hundreds and wiping out villages,
UN chief UN António Guterres on Monday pledged to “spare no effort” in
helping those affected. “I stand in full solidarity with the people of
Afghanistan after the devastating earthquake that hit the country earlier
today,” the Secretary-General said in an online message. “I extend my
deepest condolences to the families of the victims and wish a speedy
recovery to those injured. The @UN team in Afghanistan is mobilized and
will spare no effort to assist those in need in the affected areas.” On
the ground, several UN agencies reported devastation across four eastern
provinces of Afghanistan including Nangarhar and Kunar, where staff and
humanitarian partners are already supporting relief efforts.
Trapped inside
Witnesses reported that the earthquake happened at around midnight local
time, heightening fears that many Afghans may still be trapped in the
rubble of their homes. The tremor’s epicentre was eight kilometres (six
miles) underground, causing buildings to shake in the Afghan capital,
Kabul, and in Pakistan’s capital city, Islamabad, according to reports.
Among those providing assistance are the UN Assistance Mission in
Afghanistan (UNAMA), the UN aid coordination office (OCHA) the UN World
Health Organization (WHO) and many more. “As reports of deaths and
injuries from the #earthquake in eastern region of #Afghanistan continue
to emerge, @WHOAfghanistan teams are on the ground in hospitals and health
facilities, supporting the treatment of the wounded and assessing urgent
health needs,” the UN health agency said. “We are actively delivering
essential medicines and supplies and deploying health teams to affected
areas to help #SaveLives.”
How the UN helps
United Nations teams are on the ground in more than 160 countries, working
with the authorities and partners on joint programmes in communities to
promote climate action, food security, gender equality and safety of
civilians. The UN has been present in Afghanistan since 1949; the global
body’s work there is driven by the Resident Coordinator, Indrika Ratwatte,
as head of a country team which includes around 20 UN agencies and
international organizations such as the World Bank and Asian Development
Bank.} Source: https://news.un.org/en/story/2025/09/1165752

Forcedly returned refugees
UN News - August 29, 2025
{Despite Taliban ban, over 90 per cent of Afghans support girls’ right to
learn
Afghan women with their families arrive from Pakistan with their
belongings at the Torkham crossing point, facing a bleak future where
women and girls' rights have become severely restricted. Despite the
ongoing ban on girls’ secondary education, more than 90 per cent of Afghan
adults support girls’ right to be in class, according to a new alert from
the UN’s gender equality agency, UN Women. Four years after the Taliban
takeover in August 2021, the scale and severity of the women’s rights
crisis continues to intensify. Afghanistan is the only country in the
world where girls are prohibited to attend secondary school. Yet, in a
nationwide door-to-door survey of over 2,000 Afghans, more than nine in 10
supported girls’ right to learn.
“It is clear: Despite the existing bans, the Afghan people want their
daughters to exercise their right to education,” said Sofia Calltorp, UN
Women’s Chief of Humanitarian Action, at a press conference in Geneva on
Friday.
'Education is the difference'
A protracted humanitarian crisis continues in Afghanistan coupled with
systemic and institutionalised restrictions on women and girls’ rights.
Ms. Calltorp insisted that it is more important than ever to continue
investing in Afghan women’s community organizations, which offer
healthcare, mental health support and a chance to connect. “In a country
where half the population lives in poverty, education is the difference
between despair and possibility,” she said, voicing their yearning to be
back in a school environment. “This is almost always the first thing girls
tell us – they are desperate to learn and just want the chance to gain an
education,” said UN Women’s Special Representative in Afghanistan, Susan
Ferguson. A year after the introduction of a stricter so-called morality
law codified a sweeping set of restrictions, the new alert highlights the
deepening normalisation of the women’s rights crisis.
NGO work ban
The Taliban’s ban on women working for NGOs – announced nearly three years
ago – continues to have a devastating impact, said UN Women. More than
half of NGOs in Afghanistan report that it has affected their ability to
reach women and girls with vital services. A UN Women survey conducted in
July and August found that 97 per cent of Afghan women said it had
negatively impacted them.} Source: https://news.un.org/en/story/2025/08/1165744
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White shoes
Zan Times - August 28, 2025 - By: Azadah
{Imprisoned for white shoes: Kabul’s women speak of Taliban arrests
In the past month, a wave of arrests — really abductions — has swept
across Kabul. Women and girls accused of “improper hijab” have been
dragged off the streets, out of markets, and even from restaurants by
the Taliban’s morality police. I spoke with several who endured these
detentions. Their faces are etched with grief and tears as they
recount the terror they felt when taken. Tarana was walking with her
cousin near her home in Qala-e-Naw, in the Dasht-e-Barchi area of
Kabul, when Taliban enforcers stopped them. “Even though our hijab was
completely proper and we were only not wearing masks, one of those
women grabbed my hand, pulled me to the side of the street, and said,
‘Your hijab is not correct! Get in the car,’” says Tarana. The two
young women were held inside the vehicle for about half an hour before
being released, thanks to their protests and the intervention of
onlookers who had surrounded the car. Three weeks later, Tarana is
still in shock. Withdrawn, she sits in a darkened room with the
curtains drawn. She no longer joins her family or plays with her
younger siblings. “How easily one can be kidnapped and imprisoned just
for being a woman,” she repeats to herself.
Tarana’s story is not unique.
There’s a War on Women in Afghanistan.
Negar, who lives in the Karte Sakhi area of Kabul, recalls her ordeal:
“My mother was sick, so I hurriedly got ready to visit her. Near the
main road, the ‘white coats’ [Taliban enforcers] stopped me and mocked
me, saying, ‘Where are you going, movie girl?’” The Taliban arrested
her for wearing white shoes, wearing makeup, and leaving her home
without a male guardian. Taken to Police District 3, she was allowed
to call her husband. “While I was detained, I felt death there,” she
says. “They hurled insults at my husband, repeatedly calling him
dishonourable.” The Taliban warned him that “a woman has no right to
leave the house without a mahram [male guardian], and in such an
appearance,” explains Negar. Since then, she finds that
stepping outside her home is a nightmare. Tabasom was returning from
an English course when she was detained in Pul-e-Khoshk,
Dasht-e-Barchi, and taken to Police District 18. “My hijab was proper.
They only called me a ‘dancer’ because my clothes were
bright-coulored,” she explains. Taliban officers told her she must
wear all-black, warning that bright clothing “attracts men’s
attention.” She spent more than four hours in detention, enduring
insults, humiliation, and beatings. Released after her parents
guaranteed her freedom, Tabasom has not left the house since. “After
that incident, I have nightmares every night. Everywhere feels
terrifying to me,” she says. During her confinement, the Taliban
warned her not to speak of her arrest: “They told me not to post about
it on Facebook, or they would imprison me and my entire family.” These
arrests have sown fear across the capital. Mohammad, a driver who
works in Kabul, says he has repeatedly seen women and girls taken
away. “They gathered both veiled and unveiled women and loaded them
into vehicles,” he recalls. For him, the Taliban’s goal is clear:
“They want to create an atmosphere of terror so that no woman dares to
leave her home.” Ali, another minibus driver, has also witnessed women
being pulled off public vans. “They dragged women and forced them into
their vehicles with beatings,” he says. The experience has changed his
own family’s life. As the father of two teenage daughters who had been
studying English, Ali now forbids them from attending classes. “I
stopped my daughters from going to their course. My heart would
shatter if one day I saw them beaten like that and taken away. It’s
better they stay home,” he explains. The terror is not isolated to
Kabul. Across Afghanistan, women and girls find themselves imprisoned
in their own homes — too afraid to go out because they are terrified
of arrest or imprisonment by the Taliban. Yet, they also find that
remaining at home brings fear of its own, especially a darkening
future where no girl goes to school. For the women of Afghanistan, the
terror they experience has no end. They live with destinies shaped by
pain.} Source: https://zantimes.com/2025/08/28/imprisoned-for-white-shoes-kabuls-women-speak-of-taliban-arrests/

Khadija Haidary
Zan Times - August 26, 2025 - by Khadija Haidary
{My father, my First teacher
On Wednesday, July 23, at noon, my father fell into eternal sleep. The
news of his death struck me like a blow. Since then, I feel as though
nothing is left that could truly shake me. I carry a heavy grief, but
also the memory of a man whose devotion changed the course of my life.
As a child, I saw my father clearly: a man who, despite holding a high
government position, personally enrolled me and my sisters in school.
He taught me the alphabet himself and, in the middle of his official
duties, still sat with me over homework. By the third grade I could
read, and he encouraged me with small rewards. If I correctly read the
title and author of the books he was reading, he gave me ten afghani.
Now I understand: he wanted me to know books and writers, to nurture a
love of reading. By the time I reached high school, he had left
government service to become a teacher. A teacher who devoted himself
entirely to his daughters. At times I grew tired of his constant
attention, but he carried within him a mission: to raise daughters who
could stand on their own feet. When I sat the Kankor, Afghanistan’s
university entrance exam, he searched for tutors, insisted I learn
well, and later reproached me when I confessed to struggling in
physics. When the results came, I was admitted to economics. He was
quietly pleased but told me I should have pursued engineering,
pointing to girls he had seen succeed in Kabul and Mazar-e-Sharif. Yet
he respected my choice and turned his attention to guiding my younger
sisters. After graduation, it was again my father who found job
opportunities, who accompanied me to every exam, traveling between
provinces, never tiring of the effort he poured into us. When I left
our district to continue studying, he did not hold me back. Instead,
he accompanied me to Kabul, pressing money into my hand so I could buy
a computer. In 2018 and 2019, as I studied and worked in Kabul, our
district became a battlefield. In one fight, a bullet passed close by
my father’s ear. Frightened, my brother and I begged him to move the
family. He agreed, abandoning his house, cattle, farmland, orchards,
and grain stores to bring us to Kabul. We had barely settled three
years when the Republic collapsed. In the first week after the fall,
my father packed again and returned to our village. He told me: “You
too can seek refuge with me.” Since the collapse of 2021, I too have
fallen many times—in spirit and in life. Each time, it was he who
pulled me back from the edge. More than once, he walked from Takhar to
Kabul, brought me home, and cared for me until I regained my strength.
When he saw me looking well on camera, he would smile and say, “You
look good,” before breaking into a laugh. When I crossed into
Pakistan, I called him. He asked why I had turned myself into a
wanderer, why young people could not stay together. He urged me to
write, often hurrying me: “Write it now!” Perhaps he sensed his time
was short. In exile, I often called him in tears over the smallest
struggles, seeking his help, sometimes reproaching him for not being
able to fix my life. I always believed he could solve anything. I was
still that little girl, following in his footsteps, waiting for him to
say: “Bravo, you walk like a great man.” When I heard of his death, I
cried: “Did life take my father too, in the very days when I was
fighting it with all my strength?” Now I think of his quiet efforts
that shaped my life, lifting me from a rural girl who milked cows to a
writer and journalist. He pushed me to write more serious articles, to
cite reliable sources, and to send my work to newspapers. In
Afghanistan, for a girl to become literate—for a girl to become a
writer—requires a father who sees his daughters’ education as his
sacred duty. My father could have sought power and wealth, but he
chose instead the modest life of a schoolteacher, fixing his eyes on
us, his daughters. Three of us advanced by skipping grades, all under
his guidance. Today’s Afghanistan is different. Fathers no longer have
the freedom to give wings to their daughters’ dreams. My father lived
our dreams as though they were his own, rejoicing in even our smallest
achievements. Even now, there are fathers who sacrifice everything for
their daughters’ education—who migrate, who endure hardship again and
again in neighbouring countries just so their daughters can study. In
war-torn countries like Afghanistan, a girl needs immense support to
finish high school, to reach university. Every successful girl today
knows her father as her first supporter, her first hero. Without
fathers like mine, it would not have been possible for girls to leave
remote villages, go to big cities, and pursue an education.} Source: https://zantimes.com/2025/08/26/my-father-my-first-teacher/
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